When All Yell Breaks Loose: Rude Behavior and Discipline

By Dan Gephart, June 10, 2024

On my morning coffee runs to Wawa, I drive by a pedestrian crosswalk and navigate a hectic parking lot that resembles a Richard Scarry book. This daily caffeine quest often reminds me there are two kinds of people in this world.

There’s the kind who say thank you when you hold a door open for them. These are the people who give you a nod and slightly pick up their pace when you let them cross in front of your car. Then there’s the other kind, who respond to your act of kindness with, well, nothing. No nod. No eye contact. No words of gratitude.

These rude folks aggravate me, even though I know they shouldn’t. But it’s a brief encounter. And once that coffee is securely in my hands, the lack of courtesy I encountered is long forgotten. Also, it’s a lower level of rudeness – one borne of self-absorption, not aggression.

But aggressive rudeness is out there. Just ask any retail clerk. And it’s in the Federal workplace, too, as recent decisions bear out. Unfortunately, there’s no latte or cappuccino available that’ll put these people out of your mind.

In Hornsby v. FHFA, DC-07520125-0576-I-2 (April 28, 2022) (NP), an employee was removed based upon 18 specifications of conduct unbecoming a Federal manager. This guy must be fun to sit next to on an airplane. In one meeting, he held up an email from another employee, who was also in the meeting, and said he found the email to be “[expletive] offensive.”

In this case, the Board sustained only five of the 18 specifications – but the meeting outburst was one of those sustained.

In Brooks v. Small Business Administration, DOCKET NUMBER SF-0752-23-0197-I-1, (Aug. 8, 2023), the MSPB administrative judge (AJ) sustained three specifications involving a loan specialist’s rude behavior. Those specifications involved emails that “impugn[s] the motives and character” of the loan specialist’s supervisor, and “levie[s] vague threats against her.”

Examples of those emails:

• “I do not trust anything that you have to say because you’re not a credible person when you take into account what you were ‘willing’ to do against me without any real justification and or rationale. You’re (sic) morality and ethics are very questionable. And this too will come to light as well.”
• “Obviously, you don’t care about what is right or wrong when you literally ignored the ‘facts’ of what I stated. Simply want to use your authority whether it’s right or wrong obviously doesn’t matter with you. And it continually shows in every way. Your time is indeed coming when you will have to be held ‘accountable’ to what you’ve done and continue to do against me.”
• “I do not ‘personally’ want to review any 4th qtr, or any other year-end review with you because I do not trust anything that you have to say. You do not have any credibility with me.”

In Ikossi v. Department of Defense, DC-0752-17-0357-I-2 (April 10, 2024) (NP), the Board upheld the removal of a scientist on charges of conduct unbecoming and failure to follow instructions. The conduct unbecoming charge was bolstered by six specifications of rude, uncooperative, and unprofessional behavior.

In one of those instances, a supervisor and IT professional were assisting the scientist with reducing the size of her electronic mailbox and syncing her new computer. The scientist pointed her finger in the IT professional’s face and yelled at her. During a meeting to discuss a reasonable accommodation request for telework, the scientist yelled at an HR representative and then “jumped up and down.”

In another meeting, the scientist’s supervisor asked her to read the emails that were sent to her. According to the supervisor, the scientist replied:  “I am not going to read anything” and “You don’t know what you are doing.” When the supervisor attempted to read a printout of one of the emails, the employee grabbed them from supervisor’s hand and called her “stupid.”

In Salyer v. VA, DC 0752-17-0635-I-1 (May 20, 2024) (NP), the Board upheld an employee’s removal, which was supported by nine charges, including (you guessed it) a charge of conduct unbecoming. The appellant’s behavior is a textbook example of rude.

The employee would allegedly “yell” and “raise her voice” at employees. Most of the diatribes were aimed at subordinate employees, but at other times she raised her voice without directing the ire at anyone specifically. When someone told the appellant she needed to stop yelling, she replied: “I haven’t yelled, maybe I should start yelling so people know what my yelling is like.”

This kind of behavior is misconduct, and failure to address it will sink morale, make it harder to meet mission, and could eventually lead to harassment complaints.

In the Hornsby decision, the Board noted it has “frequently held that rude, discourteous, and unprofessional behavior in the workplace is outside the accepted standards of conduct reasonably expected by agencies and can be the subject of discipline.” As FELTG Instructor Ann Modlin Boehm told us last year – words and attitude matter. Gephart@FELTG.com

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